Sunday, July 31, 2011

Housewarming


July 29, 2011

I’m wearing a sweatshirt, drinking hot chocolate, and wrapping myself in a pagne right now and it’s probably 75 degrees.  The rainy season has brought a mini cool wave, and it’s very welcome.  Oh and I’m doing all of this from my…new house in Pehunco! I moved! The switch happened last Saturday when a big truck (not like a pickup truck, more like what you’d fill with apples) pulled up to my concession in Tonri.  Two guys loaded everything, I jumped in the front seat with them, and we jumbled (big truck, bad road) the 10 kilometers to Pehunco blasting Bariba music on the radio.  They unloaded everything fairly quickly and then I got to unpacking.  The move was a long time coming but I pretty immediately felt like I had made the right decision.  I feel happier here, more comfortable, and more optimistic.  I really like the family whose concession I’m living in – the dad is the director of one of the ecole primaires in Pehunco and the mom always has a smile for me and speaks to me in Bariba even though she speaks French to teach me new words.  They have, I think, seven or eight kids, ranging from adult to the three year old, Mouba, who is incredibly cute and has sparkling, baby of the family eyes.  There are three teenage daughters who have all been welcoming and accepting of all my Batoure weirdness. 

This morning I went to the centre de santé in Pehunco and helped with the free infant vaccinations they do every Friday.  For some reason coming to the health center to get your baby vaccinated is an occasion to dress to the nines, babies included.  Mamas wear fancy modèles (top and skirt in matching tissu), excessive jewelry (rings on every finger), and the snazziest shoes they own.  Babies who won’t walk for another year wear socks and shoes to complement their ruffled dresses and denim outfits.  I had gone with Dave before so I generally knew what was going on.  First, the women drop off their carnet de santé (health booklet), and then I help match the carnet to their health record sheet.  After this is done I go over to where all the mamas are and hang out and eat while we wait for the vaccines to be counted and prepared.  The food at the centre de santé is another draw.  To start with there are gateaux – not cake, but fried sweet dough balls – and pâté – fried dough balls that taste like bialys.  Then bissap and citron juice.  Pâte rouge with jus (tomatoes and onions).  Also something that looks a lot like yogurt and is served with crushed ice, sugar, and sweetened condensed milk.  I was really excited the first time I had it, thinking I was eating something that was at least a little good for me and getting some calcium and protein. I couldn’t quell my curiosity about where this dairy was coming from so the second time I had it I asked the mama.  I wish I hadn’t.  It comes from corn.

When everything is ready I help read off names and give the women back their carnets so they can get in line to have their baby stuck.  Reading names is a fun game.  First, I live in Baribaland so most names are on the lines of Barikissou, Fousseina, and Hawaou.  Second, there’s the handwriting to decipher.  And lastly, this name reading is being done in a small room crowded with women and crying babies.  Today the vaccinations ended around 1 pm, just as the rain was starting.  I jumped on my bike, picked up bread on the way home (I can eat this every day if I want to now), and went home to make a PB & J sandwich and watch the Wire on my computer.  Not a bad afternoon.  I’ve been hanging out in my concession in the evenings; I usually bring a book out and read or talk to whoever’s there.  Tonight after pâte (with good sauce and meat!), we watched a DVD of a DJ Arafat concert.  Pretty entertaining even though we watched the exact same thing last night.  Catching myself falling asleep, I said my bonne nuits and that was the day.   

Below are pictures of my new house!


Living room, front door to the right


Back shower/kitchen area


Living room, hallway leads to bedrooms and back area
       

Sunday, July 17, 2011

One year down/to go!


July 11, 2011

One year in.

We got to Benin on July 17th (?) 2010, which was just about one year ago.  I guess what comes next is something like…I can’t believe I’ve already been here a year! The time has flown, it feels like I was just in training and I can’t believe how far I’ve come and how much I’ve changed.  But actually, I CAN believe I’ve been here a year.  I feel every day of it, and I don’t mean that in a depressing I hate Benin kind of way.  What I mean is that I am acutely aware of my time here and the progression of my two years.  There was an abrupt jump recently for me from two years, oh my god, I’m living here for two whole years?! to whoa I only have a year left and there’s so many projects I want to do and haven’t done yet and places I want to visit and eek.  I understand now why a volunteer service of one year just wouldn’t work, or rather why it would not be nearly as effective.  Taking a whole year “just” to meet people, get to know your surroundings, and learn to understand (culturally and linguistically) people around you might seem ridiculous, or even horrible. It is tough, and often not very warm and fuzzy, but also necessary and, eventually, beneficial. 

So, what have I done this year?
1.     Read a lot of books – I’d recommend What is the What, The Glass Castle, and The Elegance of the Hedgehog
2.     Learned (a tad bit of) Bariba – meaning I can tell people my name and where I’m from, where I’m going, and how much bouillie I want to buy
3.     Contracted intestinal parasites, and then again, and then another time
4.     Participated in a bike tour of 10 villages on the subject of family planning      
5.     Learned that having a baby pee on you is considered good luck! (I am very lucky.)
6.     Gotten a little more used to….being called batoure, having to saluer every single person I pass lest I be considered rude, participating in conversations with lots of (awkward) pauses, people balking at the notion that having multiple wives is illegal in the U.S., being asked repeatedly to provide express passage to Beninese people to the U.S., not eating vegetables, eating rice and beans for breakfast (if I’m lucky), eating with my hands, getting sunburned after 10 minutes of sun, and never having my own seat in a car (or even my own half seat…), the smile that having a whole village of children know your name (Ma-yee) brings

I’ve been biking to Pehunco probably three times a week lately, which is nice because there’s people, electricity, and food there and also because it’s pretty good exercise.  Peace Corps gives us pretty nice bikes (they’re Trek mountain bikes), especially compared to the bikes most Beninese have, but riding 10 k on sandy, hilly roads is a workout.  It’s been cooler lately though so I don’t arrive dripping in sweat like I did during chaleur (well actually I mostly zem’d during chaleur).  The rainy season is supposed to have started depuis longtemps but so far we’ve only had one intense, thunder and lightning storm and then a few heavy sprinkles.  The lack of rain is the talk of the town and inevitably comes up in conversation – “cette année, la pluie, vraiment on ne sait pas…”.  I biked in to Pehunco this morning, and I’m waiting around because I’m apparently early for an 8 am meeting (it is 9:30) to discuss finding a new work partner for me.  I wrote up project plans for two projects that I want to get started on - the production and sale of moringa powder and building and using compost piles in gardens.  I’m hoping that after today I will have a designated and interested person that will help me start and implement these.  Having a go-between who can translate, who is already a known face, and who is Beninese helps immensely.

Coming up in the next few weeks I have-
Benin's Independence Day Fete - August 1st in Nati
Girls Camp - August 9-13th in Nati
Stage training - early September

Miss everyone, hope you're all doing well.



CEG Tonri